One of the best things you can do for your mom is to celebrate her on Mother’s Day. This can mean different things to different people. For some, celebrating means throwing a huge party with all of your mom’s closest friends and family. For others, it means getting her a special gift that she’s always wanted. Maybe you and your siblings do some chores for her around her home. The point is, Mother’s Day is a personal day for families, and it can be emotional for many people. 

Mother’s Day is a holiday that has been around in the United States for over 100 years. It was created by Anna Jarvis in 1908 after she lost her mother and wanted to celebrate the things she did. Believe it or not, it did not become an official holiday until 1914. Even without a specific day, mothers have been celebrated for thousands of years—even the Romans had festivals to honor mothers and goddesses. These days, the celebration happens on a Sunday in May. 

Most mothers are sentimental in some way, so if you need a good idea of what to do for Mother’s Day, we suggest you write her a letter. There are so many things you can say to her in a letter, which can be really special. Sometimes, something that comes from the heart can mean more than any present ever could. If you don’t know what to write about or where to start, don’t worry. We’ve put together a guide for writing a Mother’s Day letter for your mom! 

What Should I Write About?

The truth is, it doesn’t really matter what you write about. There are a million things you could say to your mom, but all she will care about is that you are saying them in the first place. Taking the time to write your thoughts and feelings down to give to one of the most important women in your life is so thoughtful, and your mom will recognize that. That effort alone will make your mother so incredibly happy! 

Your relationship with your mom can determine what you write about. If you guys have a goofy, joking, and silly relationship, write in that tone and talk about some funny moments between the two of you. If you want to make the letter more serious, then get deep and write something emotional for her. Maybe there’s something you’ve always wanted to tell her; write that in the letter. If you are really stuck and don’t know what to say, we’ve come up with three great talking points for you to go off of. 

• What you love about your mom: This is a great place to start. Who doesn’t love hearing nice things about themselves? Tell her at least three things that you love about her. Talk about how you love how hard she works, how caring she is, and how strong she is. Write down the first things that come to your mind when you think of what you love about your mom. 
  
  
• Why you are thankful for her: Giving thanks and gratitude to such an important woman is really the whole point of Mother’s Day. If she helped you through a hard time, tell her how thankful you are for that. If she encouraged you to follow your dreams, say thank you! Sometimes it’s the small things that mean the most, so don’t forget to thank her for those things too.  
  
  
• Your favorite memories together: If you want to make the letter emotional and deep, talk about your favorite memories of you and your mom. Maybe you took a special trip together, or maybe you always try cooking new recipes together. Whatever memories that make you smile when you think of your mom, you should write about. Maybe there was even a difficult time that you both went through but worked it out together, which made for a good memory.  After all, growing together might be a super important part of your relationship.

Should I Buy A Pre-Written Card?

This is totally your preference. If you don’t want to write a full letter on stationery or paper, then a card is another option. There are a lot of thoughtful and well-written cards that you will be able to find in a Mother’s Day section wherever you can buy cards. You can pick one that has a message that means something to both you and your mom. Most of them have pretty florals or pictures on the card as well. 

If you do buy a pre-written card, make sure you add a personal note in there. While cards can say very nice things, the things that you write and say from the heart will always mean more. However, if you are in a pinch or just aren’t great at writing long letters, then a pre-written card will still be a very sweet gesture. You can always add a sentence or two that echos what the card is saying, but in your own words. Either way, your mom is sure to appreciate the effort, and a pre-written card is certainly better than nothing. 

Should I Get My Mom a Mother’s Day Present?

While most moms don’t expect gifts from their children, we are sure she would love to receive something a little extra besides a card. A card is so thoughtful and can help you express your thoughts and feelings of gratitude for your mom. But a gift can show her that you went the extra mile to help her feel loved on this very special day. There are presents that fit every budget for Mother’s Day, so you don’t have to worry about breaking the bank. Even something small can really brighten her day, and we have a couple of suggestions for you. 

1. A Candle

You simply can’t go wrong with a candle. It’s the perfect gift because it’s beautiful, thoughtful, and it can be personalized based on your mom’s favorite scent or color. Every time she lights the candle, she will think of you! It’s not over the top, but still nice enough to make a great gift for Mother’s Day. Our Botanica Collection offers four scents that are sure to impress. They include Lavender, Tobacco Flower, Rose, and Petitgrain.  

2. A Body Sponge

If your mom loves luxurious bath and body products, then this is the perfect gift for her. Our sponges are a three-in-one product that works to cleanse, exfoliate, and hydrate the skin. They make things easier because your mom won’t need to buy as many products. You can even get her a sponge with the same scent as the Botanica candles if you want to put together a gift set!  

3. A Pedi Buffer

This is perfect for the pedicure-loving mom who wants to keep her feet in tip-top shape. Feet can be annoying to deal with because their skin is rough and tough. A lot of tools claim to help, but really don’t do anything at all. This is where our pedi buffers come in. They are similar to our sponges and also act as a three-in-one product. The difference is that one side contains a rough texture to help polish away and exfoliate dead skin on your feet, meaning that she’ll have silky-smooth skin and a gorgeous pedi. 

4. A Hand Cream

Everyone is washing their hands now more than ever before. If your mom is experiencing dryness in her hands, she needs a little moisturizing boost. Our hand creams contain highly nourishing ingredients, like shea butter and hyaluronic acid. Pick a scent (or two) that she loves so she can keep one in her bathroom and one in her purse to have when she’s on the go. 

Giving a Gift Is Really Up To You

Whether or not you want to get your mom a Mother’s Day gift is totally up to you. There is no pressure to do so, but it’s a nice gesture to do for the woman who helped raise you! Even something as simple as a candle or hand cream is sure to bring a smile to her face because you went above and beyond writing a letter for her. You can also do acts of service for her as a gift, such as surprising her by cleaning her house or preparing a homemade meal for her. Get creative with your gift ideas, and you’re sure to come up with something that your mom will love.    

Conclusion

Writing a letter for your mom can be a great way to let her know how much you love and care about her. You can discuss special times you shared together, or what you are most thankful for. If you want to do something a little extra, you can get her a gift, like the ones we suggested from Spongellé. From hand cream to body sponges, there are some great things to choose from. 

Sources:

Mother's Day 2021 - Date, Founding & Traditions | HISTORY 

7 Things You Don't Know About Mother's Day's Dark History | National Geographic